Spiritual Counseling and Vocational Identity Development
We live in a rich multicultural world within a diverse population filled with spiritually driven individuals whose values and inborn gifts are an essential part of their character. However, we often look through different lenses where our attention is less on embracing our uniqueness and nurturing respect for each other, and more about just surviving. This directly impacts the quality of our personal and professional relationships, which become strained. We are taught to manage ourselves, our problems, and to be in control of every aspect of life. Formatively, this attempts to place ourselves at the center of our universe and pushes others outside of our lives. We also subjugate our connection with something greater than ourselves and we pray or meditate only in a time of need and then take control once again as things improve. In response to this, we offer spiritual counseling that focuses on guiding individuals through life stressors back to a life that holds meaning and reframes our worldview. We believe that we were designed to connect with a power greater than ourselves and develop an enduring spiritual relationship that has the power to transform how we see ourselves and others through a new lens. Hope is found through living out life through a process of restoration back to wholeness. This requires making a commitment to intentional change and an abiding in an implicit understanding that our role on this earth is to share our gifts with others and that this new attitude offers new meaning and purpose to those we counsel.
We also believe that every human is blessed with a talented mind, has been designed for a purpose and that we are there to guide them on their journey to actualize their calling. We use methods to awaken and evidence "how" we are to live and the hope that ensues. It is a process of self-reflection, leading to self-clarity and transformation, to becoming the person we were intended us to become, to reshape our distorted lens, and to witness how change emerges from the inside out.
Vocational Identity Development We live in a world where “what” we do is often shaped by the expectations of others. This world attempts to mold our perspective of life (attitude), it fundamentally impacts "how" we feel about ourselves (emotions), and "how" we operate in life (behavior). However, we are also born with gifts that were designed not to hoarded, but rather shared with others!
Yet, one of the most common questions when meeting someone is:
"So...what do you do?" Whether we like it or not, we tend not to be defined by our passions or values, but instead by our job title. So, when we stop and think about it...
*Do our career paths really engage our interests, passions and natural abilities or do we leave a part of ourselves back at home or at the office? Are we working towards meaningful and satisfying goals we've created or are we just 'in it for the money?'"
Identity Inquiry From a spiritual perspective, there are two fundamental questions we need to ask ourselves:
1. Is their purpose in “what” we do in life, where we are rewarded from experiences that allow us to reflect our uniqueness while connecting with others? Isn't this "why" we were designed/created?
2. "What" gifts or competencies are we born with to support a pathway that has meaning and "how" may they be developed into a vocation that really matters?
So, ask yourself this:
What if we could refine this distorted lens that teaches us to model our behavior after others (old self), adopt a new attitude that implicitly reveals that these gifts are blessings, and understand that they are designed to serve others in both our personal and professional lives?
What if we could begin to see the good in others and tune our hearts by sharing our gifts that make a contribution where we receive meaningful emotional rewards. This behavior evokes the foundation of a new identity and our becoming a "new self.”
Attitude-> Emotions-> Behavior
When we set aside our ambition and give of our “self,” then we begin to perceive how, “what” we do in life is driven by love. If we are faithful stewards of these gifts, then developing them so that they may be cultivated and shared with others manifests a new attitude, is emotionally rewarded by self-less giving, and that behavior is repeated because it just feels right.
This approach to living actualizes an awareness to our innate strengths. This amplifies the sense that these are blessings from above, designed to be used, not just for ourselves, but for others in this world. In this way, we may leave our mark and impact others in "what" we do. There is a higher power that reveals that we are to be used as an instrument, and to fulfill greater things than we could ever imagine. This is what we are being called to do: to become vessels to do His work on earth. If we can "live into" this belief, then we are walking with this power as it is working within us from the inside out and transforming us where we may radiate its (Imago Dei). In this endeavor, we are discover authentic joy.
Vocational Identity Assessment Process
We use subjective assessments to discern “who” you are and "who" you've have always been, before life stressors and their challenges cause you to question your pathway in life. We also use an objective instrument to identify your inborn abilities, those gifts you were born with, that cognitive hard wiring that allow you to flourish. Integrating these two allows individuals to distill “what” pathway holds meaning, “why” and “how” using their gifts will support them on a journey in this world of work, to being "what" they were designed to become.